i had a session a few weeks ago for a really good friend of mine. actually, this session was at least 2 years in the making. she had been throwing around the idea of creating a few photographic images of herself for her husband. something seductive, something sexy - without being completely revealing. she called it her "after 5" session. during those 2 years, i'm not sure if she was just building up the nerve to do the photo shoot, or, if she was just trying to torture me, thinking i would never get her in front of the camera. as women, we're usually the ones behind the camera taking the pictures. getting us on the other side of the lens, even for just a single candid shot, can be difficult; and, i won't even talk about how that one image ends up in the recycle bin way too often. we can definitely be our own worse critic. don't get me going on that because i'm with the best of them (as far as "accidentally" deleting pictures that is). fast forward two years, i get a call - "valerie, i'm ready.......lets do this." we had a great shoot!!!" beautiful images. lots of laughing. i think i had to duck and cover at least once because we thought the hubby had got home early (these were a surprise for him). something unexpected happened though. these images, meant to be a gift for her husband, something she did just for him, ended up being a gift for her as well. after she got to view the images from the shoot , she told me how good they made her feel, how sexy she felt. the girl is hot ya'll! if she didn't know that before , she knows it now! this got me to thinking, "man" (yes that's how i think when i'm talking to myself) ...."i want to make every woman feel like that!!" i mean really, to have images of yourself that you absolutely love???" mine usually fall into the category of images that i don't hate, lol. i actually have a few that my own husband (of course wouldn't be using anyone else's hubby) snapped of me, that make me feel pretty good if i may say so myself. but uh, you wont be seeing them - just like no one else will be seeing the images from your session (unless you specifically allow it) - but just to have them and to know - this is me, it makes me smile. if you know me and you've talked to me in the past few weeks - you know that these new sessions that are being offered are all i've been able to talk about. i know i'm not reinventing the wheel - boudoir photography is not a new thing at all. it is however new to withunmind photography. the excitement and passion are fresh and i am beyond thrilled to have the opportunity to capture stunning images of real women. my first focus is to make you feel good about you by creating images that you will love, that will add a little quick to your step and give you just one more reason to smile.. after we get that out the way, a little eye candy for your fella doesn't hurt either.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
sweet baby of mine : oklahoma city area photographer
sweet sweet baby of mine. 11 month old a'khari grace. i'm SO in love with this kid! shes the baby, our last one, and, i do not want her to grow up! i'm really have a hard time coming to terms with that. anyhow, a few weeks ago, after having a newborn session (see previous post below) i was inspired to break (back) out the red tutu and try to capture a few shots of my baby girl in it. she only gave me five minutes before she had had enough of me - thats okay though, it was just enough time to get what i needed! stay tuned for her first birthday party pictures. sniff. sniff.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
baby z : oklahoma city area photographer
i had the honor of photographing this beautiful 4 day old baby, friday night, for a young couple that are friends of ours. there really is something almost magical about photographing babies. i truly love every minute of it! i mean how much more innocent, pure and fresh does life get than this!!
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
ahhhh. me and the blog have come to a mutual understanding. i have prettied it up a bit,and, in return it will let me post my pictures. once again, all is right with the world!
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
my blog is officially driving me crazy!! i've never had problems with it until now!
i cant seem to post more than one picture at a time (and i have sooooo many to share).
my header doesnt want to be centered and i could go on and on! we may be moving this
blog to a new host soon!!
i cant seem to post more than one picture at a time (and i have sooooo many to share).
my header doesnt want to be centered and i could go on and on! we may be moving this
blog to a new host soon!!
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
baby jeremiah : oklahoma city baby photographer
i think baby jeremiah weighed in at about 9.5lbs.
i got to get my hands on him when he was about 5days old.
they had really been itching for a newborn, so he really hit the spot!!
they had really been itching for a newborn, so he really hit the spot!!
i also photographed his big brother as a baby born
(he's the little baby on the bookshelf in the gallery!).
i did try to control myself and not sniff him too much
(how can you not give in to that new baby smell??).
it didnt matter though, by the end, he was pretty tired of me
- but i think we all got what we wanted!!
lol.
thanks kelly!!
(he's the little baby on the bookshelf in the gallery!).
i did try to control myself and not sniff him too much
(how can you not give in to that new baby smell??).
it didnt matter though, by the end, he was pretty tired of me
- but i think we all got what we wanted!!
lol.
thanks kelly!!
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
miss alexa
i loved spending time with this kid! i get to every year right around her birthday!!
i may need to come back and post some more from her session. the kid seriously has an expression for everything!
Monday, October 26, 2009
aww man! my poor neglected blog!!
i'm surprised that it hasnt disowned me!!
with the new site design up,
i'm making a goal to give my little blog a little (okay alot) more attention!!!
i'll start by posting a few images from sessions from this past week!
does that at least give me a few brownie points???
of course - with that said -
my connection seems to be slow tonight and doesnt want to let me upload anything!
i will try again in the morning!
Sunday, March 16, 2008
Sunday, February 17, 2008
a little tease




Occasionally, I will post a "sneak peek" for families after a session. A little something to "tide" them over until their gallery is ready to be viewed. This though, I consider more of a tease! :) Its actually a few more images than I usually post - but nothing to compared to what's still in store! ;) Can't wait for you guys to see!
Monday, November 19, 2007
For Grandma
Monday, November 5, 2007
Sunday, September 30, 2007
Miss A



Coming home today and pulling up the images from this session , I just thought to myself - I LOVE shooting kids. Even the stubborn ones are so easy to work with (not saying that you were stubborn A, but, hey, you do have your moments, lol). Kids can care less what they look like (or what you look like). They are so relaxed and so natural - I love it! This is my third time shooting A - once a year as her birthday approaches for the past three years (has it really been that long?). I guess she's warming up to me a little - I got kisses when she left today :) !!!
Sunday, September 23, 2007
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